By LOUISA LIM
star2@thestar.com.my
Forget Wonder Woman. These women prove that real-life
superheroines do exist, and they’re not necessarily dressed in a tiny
red bustier and star-speckled shorts.
THESE
women visit disaster zones as the residents flee, alleviate the
suffering of thousands, and inspire others with their compassion and
graciousness.
Female NGO workers’ contributions are phenomenal,
but they hardly ever make the headlines. There’s also an often-untold
aspect about this line of work: the personal costs endured by these
women. Only last year, NBC’s Ann Curry was in Mogadishu with a
humanitarian aid worker from the World Food Programme. “How do you come
out of that, come out of looking at that, without just wanting to cry?”
she asked.
“I don’t — I don’t,” the aid worker replied.
Because
the work is fraught with anxiety (and danger, at times), many NGOs
often face difficulties in recruiting more women. However, Star2
managed to find four astonishing women in humanitarian work who forge on
with perseverance and conviction. We want to know why — and how — they
do it.
Walking into disaster
Jessica Wong, 27, programme officer, Mercy Malaysia
Getting
into Mindanao, the Philippines, after a severe tropical storm has just
hit would probably be unthinkable for many people. But for 27-year-old
Jessica Wong, it was just another day at work.
Putting
others first: Jessica Wong registering refugee children for vaccination
clinics in Malaysia. She developed an interest in the humanitar ian
field a fter she began volunteering at local community centres, student
societies and non-governmental organisations.
As
programme officer in Mercy Malaysia’s relief operations department, she
provides medical relief, sustainable health-related development and
risk-reduction activities for communities in both crisis and non-crisis
situations.
“Apart from coordinating health-related projects for
Malaysia and abroad (in countries such as Afghanistan and Sri Lanka), I
am also deployed for disaster relief operations when the need arises,”
she says.
Wong, who started out in the banking sector, says she
developed an interest in the humanitarian field after she began
volunteering at local community centres, student societies and
non-governmental organisations.
“The resilience of the human
spirit is something that never ceases to amaze me,” she says. “I hope
the projects we carry out for the communities we serve will go a long
way towards building local capacities and resilience in responding to
disasters. Seeing communities thrive after a project has been completed
is most rewarding.”
One such project was reconstructing and
re-equipping a divisional hospital for the local health authorities in
Jaffna, Sri Lanka. The hospital has since been successfully handed over.
“It
was the culmination of nearly a year’s hard work by our volunteers,
staff and local partners. The hospital now serves approximately 10,000
people from the surrounding areas,” she says.
Nonethless, Wong
claims that the general public often have a distorted view of
humanitarian aid in Malaysia, which makes her work more difficult.
“Often,
there is a misconception that money and goods will fix problems but
what is more important is for the assistance to match the beneficiaries’
needs and for that help to be sustainable,” she says.
There is also a limit to what aid organisations can do, says Wong.
“More
often than not, the lifespan and sustainability of aid programmes are
contingent on funding, which is usually unpredictable. Of course, given
the opportunity, I would like to do more but I do realise there are
intricacies involved that result in limitations. I have learnt to accept
that.”
Rich in good deeds
Anrie Too, 29, fundraising manager, National Cancer Society
‘There
is so much more in life than just money. Aside from the fact that I get
to meet and work with amazing people with an incredible sense of
selflessness, I get to take home with me the sense of having contributed
to the betterment of the society, albeit in a small way,’ says Anrie
Too.
Most people are probably familiar with the 29-year-old Anrie Too and her role as a ditzy pageant contestant in Joe Hasham’s Malaysian Girls
and countless other local productions. However, mention her other job
with the National Cancer Society of Malaysia and all you’re likely to
get is blank stares. But working for an NGO has always been on her
life’s to-do list, and when an opening in the society became available,
she jumped at it.
“I get to tell myself every day that whatever I
accomplish for that day, regardless of how small, it will impact the
life of someone else in possibly a big way,” she says.
When
people think of humanitarian workers, they picture disaster responders
handing out water, food and first-aid kits. However, as fundraising
manager for the National Cancer Society of Malaysia, Too’s work takes
place mostly in an office.
At first, her decision to join the
society drew surprised reactions from those around her. “People asked me
if I’m going through a phase in life. They asked me if I was making an
emotional decision. But it was none of those,” she says, adding that,
although no one close to her had suffered the Big C, she has witnessed
first-hand the toll it took on her friend when his mother was diagnosed
with cancer.
“The ultimate goal of any NGO should be its own
demise, because when an NGO becomes redundant, that basically means its
vision has been accomplished. Thus essentially, working for an NGO is
working against societal normalcy. But anything in life that is worth
having, is worth working for. So, I say, just go for it,” she explains.
Although she is not earning top money, Too finds that her job fulfils her in a different way.
“There
is so much more in life than just money,” she says. “Aside from the
fact that I get to meet and work with amazing people with an incredible
sense of selflessness, I get to take home with me the sense of having
contributed to the betterment of the society, albeit in a small way.”
She
has, however, suffered one or two disappointments during the course of
her work. One project, in particular, left a huge impression on her
because of her inability to fulfil the dream of a cancer patient.
“She
passed away before I had the chance to rectify the situation. This
incident has disappointed me in so many ways – but mainly, knowing that
sometimes, I can’t get everything right,” she says.
Too often
dreams that, one day, she would meet a person who would tell her that
what she’s been doing made a difference in their life. That’s why one of
her most memorable moments happened when she was presenting a cheque to
a cancer patient’s daughter.
“She rewarded me with the most gracious and sincerest thank you,” says Too.
In all humility
Vizla Kumaresan, 32, clinical psychologist
Ask
Vizla Kumaresan why she chose to become a clinical psychologist in
Health Equity Initiatives, an NGO that provides free mental health
consultations to marginalised communities in Malaysia, and she’ll
probably shrug her shoulders.
“It seems like I fell into it,”
says Vizla, 32. “From the time I returned to Malaysia after studying
overseas, I had been working or volunteering with NGOs. It also showed
me a different way of working – by feminist principles, respecting and
practising democracy, and with an understanding of and respect for human
rights.
Vizla
Kumaresan says her work has shown her a different way of working — by
feminist principles, respecting and practising democracy, and with an
understanding of and respect for human rights.
“When I
completed my degree in Clinical Psychology, I thought long and hard
about what kind of work I wanted to do, and I felt more and more
inclined to remain in a similar environment.”
The most rewarding
aspect of her job, she explains, is to be able to work with “some of the
most generous, giving, intelligent, funny and selfless people” that she
would not otherwise have the chance to meet.
There are, however,
numerous challenges to contend with. Vizla claims the public is often
to blame for this, because they tend to label and mistreat her clients,
most of whom are refugees, homosexuals, transgenders and those suffering
from mental illness.
“These groups of people have come to accept
that disrespect and violence is a fact of life, through everyday
interactions with people, right up to the way they are treated by public
institutions and those in power,” says Vizla, adding that she hopes
more people will come to understand the needs of these people and see
that they are no different from anyone else.
It’s difficult for
Kumaresan not to be emotionally affected by these sad stories.
Two-and-a-half years into her job, she suffered a burnout. “I took off
to India for a much-needed holiday. I haven’t gotten much of a rest
because it’s easy to neglect your personal well-being,” she says.
She
has since taken on a different role – as Coordinator of Mental Health
Services – and is now responsible for coordinating a unit and
supervising a team of clinical psychologists. “It’s less stressful this
way,” she says. “I’m also more in tune with what I’m feeling and
thinking.”
But there’s also a more profound lesson to her story.
“We’re
people, too, and we have issues like everyone else. That’s why it’s
important for a practitioner to grow – both personally and
professionally – by engaging in therapy ourselves,” she says.
For
those who want to follow in her footsteps, Vizla has this to say:
“People need to realise that the job is not just about the glamour, or
the power or authority that comes with the qualifications.” One needs a
high degree of humility in the field. You shoulder a lot of
responsibility.”
Part of the change
Nabila Nasir, 26, Regional Resource Mobilisation Officer, International Planned Parenthood Federation (IPPF)
Nabila Nasir, 26, counts her blessings when she wakes up every morning.
Nabila Nasir believes her work with the Intern ational Planned Parenthood Federation makes a difference in people’s lives.
“Recently,
I was lucky enough to visit a project in the Pacific called ‘Sistas
Savve’ which loosely translates to ‘Girls Can’ in English – an ongoing
10-week programme for young and single mothers in the Solomon Islands,”
says Nabila who works for an NGO that is part of a global network of
family planning associations.
Apart from increasing access to
comprehensive health services as well as sexuality education, she
assists IPPF in advocating for policies that promote and defend sexual
and reproductive health. They also promote gender and women’s rights and
self-esteem, livelihood and financial literacy, and poverty reduction.
“In
a small facility centre, I spent half a day with the local girls,
learning about family planning and making cloth sanitary pads,” she
says.
“Out of the 20 participants, only one was able to converse
in English. Her name was Lauren and she told me that most girls do not
receive education beyond primary school, and they also marry early. They
do not know the risks of HIV or that they can decide when to have
children, if they choose to have kids. So, being a part of the programme
gave them opportunities they would never otherwise get.”
This
short visit caused her to feel thankful for simple privileges that she
and her peers sometimes take for granted, like education, food and
running water or access to services.
But it’s not just doom and gloom. In a field where she sees so much inequity, she also feels a lot of love.
“Before
I left, I hugged Lauren and thanked her for sharing her experiences
with me. Her big friendly smile is one that I will carry with me
forever!” she says.
Nabila first got to know about IPPF while
attending a conference on reproductive and sexual health in KL several
years back. Its humanitarian arm, which rolls out training and
programmes in disaster-affected communities, was what drew Nabila to
IPPF.
In Mongolia, they provide mobile services to those living
in rural steppes, a vast countryside of temperate grasslands where
healthcare is not easily available. In the Philippines, they became one
of the first to respond in the aftermath of Typhoon Sendong, ensuring
mechanisms were in place so that pregnant women were not neglected. In
Thailand, they consult sex workers on encouraging condom use via peer
education.
These days, she works with men, women, and young
people from all walks of life, including sex workers, people living with
HIV, refugees, and survivors of gender-based violence. Seven out of 10
of them are poor and marginalised.
She says: “I feel motivated
when I see what the organisation is doing to contribute towards humanity
and I’m really happy I got to be part of that change.”
Source : TheStar
